{"id":164,"date":"2013-06-16T18:19:15","date_gmt":"2013-06-17T04:19:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/grumpyseniors.com\/?p=164"},"modified":"2013-09-05T19:56:37","modified_gmt":"2013-09-06T05:56:37","slug":"faucets-and-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/grumpyseniors.com\/?p=164","title":{"rendered":"Faucets and marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The wife and I went to the hardware store yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>Her latest project is renovating the smaller of our two bathrooms.<\/p>\n<p>Fancy walk-in shower, new vanity and sink, the works.<br \/>\nWhen she gets it into her mind to do something, resistance is futile.<\/p>\n<p>This smaller one\u00a0is the bathroom I use.<\/p>\n<p>She wants to fancy it up for guests to use.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s the one visitor&#8217;s aim for first.<\/p>\n<p>As for me, I don&#8217;t care &#8211; I just use it and get out.<\/p>\n<p>She gets\u00a0the big, master bathroom.<br \/>\nTwo sinks, long vanity, clothes area, separate toilet and bath area.<\/p>\n<p>Mine is a closet by comparison.<br \/>\nEverything jammed into a 8 by 10 space at the end of the hallway.<\/p>\n<p>Guy&#8217;s always lose when it comes to bathrooms and closets.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s the price for being married &#8211; but that&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>So, we&#8217;re at the store buying a bunch of stuff.<\/p>\n<p>For her, she goes by price first.<br \/>\nI go by what I like, how it looks and build quality.<\/p>\n<p>You can imagine how that went.<\/p>\n<p>We end up getting a new sink faucet that she liked, but good quality, which I liked.<br \/>\nThat&#8217;s what they call compromise.<\/p>\n<p>Then we went looking for some combination towel rack and grab bar.<\/p>\n<p>At my age, I figure I&#8217;d like something to hang on to when getting in and out of the soon-to-be fancy new walk-in,\u00a0white with grey swirls, marble shower with dual spray thingies.<\/p>\n<p>I sort of wanted\u00a0them to be black to go with the soon-to-be dark tile floor.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;ll add some contrast to the walls.<\/p>\n<p>She\u00a0wanted white.<\/p>\n<p>We compromised &#8211; she got white.<\/p>\n<p>After getting the paint and some other stuff I went looking for a replacement power screwdriver.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s a whole other story for later.<\/p>\n<p>The art of compromise in marriage is stick to your guns until they start to get angry &#8211; then give in.<\/p>\n<p>Next week I begin my dog&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/grumpyseniors.com\/?p=157\" target=\"_blank\">grave<\/a>.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s time.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon-text sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Share this:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-facebook\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-facebook-164\" class=\"share-facebook sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/grumpyseniors.com\/?p=164&amp;share=facebook\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Facebook\"><span>Facebook<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-twitter\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-twitter-164\" class=\"share-twitter sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/grumpyseniors.com\/?p=164&amp;share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Twitter\"><span>Twitter<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-email\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-email sd-button share-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/grumpyseniors.com\/?p=164&amp;share=email\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to email this to a friend\"><span>Email<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The wife and I went to the hardware store yesterday. 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